
I got in an hours long debate with Galvez in Greenwich yesterday. I was saying that the tea party motivated heel dragging regarding ‘no more bailouts’ for the state pensions and the states may the very thing that drives us over the edge. His position was that if that turns out to be the case, then as a matter of principle, we should let it all come crashing down.
He knows we’re on the same page in terms of principles. He knows I agree that much greater individual liberty should be the goal. But I took great exception to his position. I told him that I thought 95% of the people who were saying we should let it all crash weren’t thinking about the real consequences of what they were cheering for. They were dehumanizing the very real suffering that would come from that by the guilty and the innocent alike. What’s more it was easy for them to do so because in America life has been easy even for the poor. They had never missed a meal thanks to poverty or had never been cold for lack of heat.
I’d been through both of those in my youth and even years later the memory was so pronounced and vivid that I couldn’t wish it on anyone. Beside that, I wasn’t convinced that tearing it all down will get us closer to individual liberty at all. When we had our revolution the constitution was written by brilliant men dedicated to the idea of personal liberty. If we tried to write one today it would be written by ACORN and the AFLCIO. The Bloods and Crips will want (and probably get) a say. It would include a reference to limiting CO2 emissions, the right to unionize, and a guarantee of free healthcare for those with preexisting conditions. While the original was inspired by Adam Smith, if we rewrote it today it would be influenced more than anyone else, by people like … cough – sputter… Paul Krugman.
Rather, I thought that if individual liberty were the goal, it would be best to keep the current patient alive even if it means a compromise of our principles. I thought the odds of disbanding the department of education and other ‘major reforms’ were more likely than getting anything resembling liberty from the kind of horror of a constitution that would come with a collapse of the US government.
Galvez said that he felt the moral issue was greater. He felt it was a first principle and that we should be prepared to say ‘liberty or death’ like the founders. He felt that at that point continuing to support the corrupt system would make us complicit in it and it would inevitably cost us our souls. He said that if my fears were realized for a new constitution, then we who know better should leave the crips and bloods to duke it out and move on to somewhere else. When I asked him where – he said ‘wherever people like us go’. My response was this:
“I’ve been poor and hungry. And speaking from experience, I know that the day my daughter misses a meal, my morality and my principles are all going out the window. It won’t get me in line for government issued bread in exchange for supporting socialism, but I’ll happily kill and rob the first man I find with government bread in his arms – then live with being a murderer and thief for the sake of my child.” The look on each of our faces made it clear that I meant it, and he believed it.
The simple fact of the matter is I’m a lot more frightened about our future than Galvez. We both think a major crisis and maybe a collapse is inevitable now. It’s just that he believes that whatever the circumstance he’ll simply reinvent himself and persevere, while that’s harder for me to accept. I remember from personal experience what being destitute and powerless is really like. It’s been burned into my memory so deeply that however much success I achieve, I can’t ever seem to set it down. My other friends have also criticized that aspect of my personality from time to time as well.
Anyway – we each made detailed points in the discussion that the other hadn’t considered. And if this seems like an argument between us it really wasn’t. Part of our friendship is about disagreeing, and pointing out new ways to look at issues we thought we already considered. It was really just one more chat in our endless discussion, and I’ve filtered out all the jokes and laughter in the interest of brevity. But the important part for me came later. About four hours after I left for the day, I got the following email from him:
Thomas,
You should not be worried about the future. Just keep your options open. In the event of a collapse, you will be a political leader.
I have every confidence in your abilities my friend.
Best Regards,
Galvez
Maybe he’s right and maybe he’s wrong – I honestly have no idea. I know politics would never be my first choice. What was important to me however was not that he believed I’d be OK but that he was a good enough friend to me to say so, hours after the conversation ended.
Success in business isn’t a matter of brilliance or inspiration. If it has to be attributed to a single characteristic, it would have to be determination. I’m convinced that anyone can achieve the kind of success they want so long as they can continue to refuse to take no for an answer. My career has certainly been a product of that belief. I don’t think luck has played any part (any positive part anyway) in my career so far. For my money, the Calvin Coolidge quote above says it all about achieving success.
But having the kind of friends I do - That’s how I’ve been luckiest. And if you’re reading this I’m talking about you.
I’m a man who has committed all manner of great offenses against others and even more against himself. Sometimes I think the flaws in my character are all that's holding it together. But my friends keep letting me off the hook and sticking with me in spite of it all. It’s become a bit of a trend for me that my closest friends all have more confidence in me than I do in myself. Half the time I don't know what the hell they're thinking and the other half I'm amazed at how I've managed to fool them all so well.
One thing I never doubt though is this. I view it as an incredible blessing that my connection to the world is maintained through a group of such great and truly admirable men. I continue to be astounded that they let a guy like me associate with them. Don’t think for a minute that I don’t appreciate every second of it guys.
Thanks a million.























