If you are looking for a non Pick Up Artist's take on taking the Red Pill, Read Rollo Tomassi's "The Rational Male". It's not the best written book, but it is the best model I've ever read for describing female behavior, and in my opinion as a middle aged man, is the best way to choke down the occasionally tough to swallow "Red Pill".
A quick review of the anti-feminism movement on youtube show's I'm a day late and a dollar short. All of the rational discussion does the same thing I'm doing in private - ridiculing feminism, feminists, and most loudly, the fully feminized male feminists. Clearly the smarter westerners already see what's going on here.
for me it's very reminiscent of the post Carter era, where weakness was considered strength, and strength as evil. We're close to the edge on all this I think.